18.1.1 BED-SIDE VISITS
The physician-patient interaction is both professional and social. The bedside visit fulfills the brotherhood
obligation of visiting the sick. The human relation with the patient comes before the professional technical relation. It
is reassurance, psychological and social support, show of fraternal love, and sharing. A psychologically satisfied patient
is more likely to be cooperative in taking medication, eating, or drinking. The following are recommended during a visit:
greeting the patient, dua for the patient, good encouraging words, asking about the patient’s feelings, doing good/pleasing
things for the patient, making the patient happy, and encouraging the patient to be patient, discouraging the patient from
wishing for death, nasiihat for the patient, reminding the patient about dhikr. Caregivers should seek permission, idhn, before
getting to the patient. They should not engage in secret conversations that do not involve the patient.
18.1.2 ETIQUETTE OF THE PATIENT
The patient should express gratitude to the caregivers even
if there is no physical improvement. Patient complaints should be for drawing attention to problems that need attention and
not criticizing caregivers. The patient should be patient because illness is kaffaarat and Allah rewards those who surrender
and persevere. The patient should make dua for himself, caregivers, visitors, and others because the dua of the patient has
a special position with Allah. When a patient sneezes he should praise Allah and the mouth to avoid spread of infections.
It is obligatory for the attendants to respond to the sneezer. The patient should try his best to eat and drink although the
appetite may be low. The caregivers can not force the patient to eat. They should try their best to provide the favorite food
of the patient. The believing patient should never lose hope from Allah. He should
never wish for death. The patient should try his best to avoid anger directed at himself or others. Getting angry is
a sign of losing patience.
18.1.3 ETIQUETTE OF THE CARE-GIVER
The caregiver should respect the rights of the patient regarding advance directives on treatment, privacy,
access to information, informed consent, and protection from nosocomial infections. Caregivers must be clean and dress appropriately
to look serious, organized and disciplined. They must be cheerful, lenient, merciful, and kind. They must enjoin the good,
have good thoughts about the patients, husn al dhann, and avoid evil or obscene words. They must observe the rules of lowering
the gaze, ghadh al basar, and khalwat. Caregivers must have an attitude of humbleness, tawadhu'u, They cannot be emotionally-detached
in the mistaken impression that they are being professional. They must be loving and empathetic and show mercifulness but
the emotional involvement must not go to the extreme of being so engrossed that rational professional judgment is impaired.
They must make dua for the patients because qadar can only be changed by dua. They
can make ruqya for the patients by reciting the two mu’awadhatain or any other verses of the Qur’an. They
must seek permission, isti' dhaan, when approaching or examining patients. Medical care must be professional, competent, and
considerate. Medical decisions should consider the balance of benefits and risks. The general position of the Law is to give
priority to minimizing risk over maximizing benefit. Any procedures carried out must be explained very well to the patient
in advance. The caregiver must never promise cure or improvement. Every action of the caregiver must be preceded by basmalah.
Everything should be predicated with the formula inshallah, if Allah wishes. The caregivers must listen to the felt needs
and problems of the patients. They should ask about both medical and non-medical problems. Supportive care such as nursing
care, cleanliness, physical comfort, nutrition, treatment of fever and pain are as important as the medical procedures themselves
and are all what can be offered in terminal illness. Caregivers must reassure the patients not to give up hope. Measures should
be taken to prevent nosocomial infections.
18.1.4 ETIQUETTE OF INTERACTION BETWEEN GENDERS
Both the caregiver and patient must cover awrat as much as possible. However, the rules of covering
are relaxed because of the necessity, dharurat, of medical examination and treatment. The benefit, maslahat, of medical care
takes precedence over preventing the harm inherent in uncovering awrat. When it is necessary to uncover awrat, no more than
what is absolutely necessary should be uncovered. To avoid any doubts, patients of the opposite gender should be examined
and treated in the presence of others of the same gender. The caregivers should be sensitive to the psychological stress of
patients, including children, when their awrat is uncovered. They should seek permission from the patient before they uncover
their awrat. Caregivers who have never been patients may not realize the depth of the embarrassment of being naked in front
of others. Medical co-education involves intense interaction between genders: Teacher-student,
student-student, and teacher-teacher. Interacting with colleagues of the opposite gender raises special problems. Norms of dress, speaking, and general conduct; class-room etiquette; social interaction; laboratory experiments
on fellow students; Clinical skills laboratory: learning clinical skills by examining other students; Operation theatre. Medical
personnel of opposite genders should wear gender-specific garments during surgical operations because Islam frowns on any
attempt to look like the opposite gender. Shari’at guidelines on interaction with patients of the opposite gender should
be followed. Taking history, physical examination, diagnostic procedures, and operations should preferably be by a physician
of the same gender. In conditions of necessity a physician of the opposite gender can be used and may have to look at the
‘awrat or touch a patient. The conditions that are accepted as constituting dharuurat are: skills and availability.
The preference between a Muslim of opposite gender vs non-Muslim of same gender depends on the local situation.
18.1.5 DEALING WITH THE FAMILY
Visits by the family fulfill the social obligation of joining
the kindred and should be encouraged. The family are honored guests of the hospital with all the shari’at rights of
a guest. The caregiver must provide psychological support to family because they are also victims of the illness because
they anxious and worried. They need reassurance about the condition of the patient within the limits allowed by the rules
of confidentiality. The family can be involved in some aspects of supportive care so that they feel they are helping and are
involved. They should however not be allowed to interrupt medical procedures. Caregivers must be careful not to be involved
in family conflicts that arise from the stresses of illness.